That's fair enough. If it is what most people want it's not going to change. I'll probably stay here regardless.But beyond that, you're not understanding my point (probably my fault). This forum is what it is and is run the way its run. Some people like it and some don't. Some enjoy the ribbing and the jokes and some don't. If people don't want to participate -- no problem -- but I don't understand the lobbying of Nick to turn this place into something else or "change the culture." Maybe not everyone thinks the culture needs changing.
I love a good ribbing, but only when it comes from someone I've built a relationship with. There's a huge difference between a teasing from a friend and a teasing from a complete stranger.
I probably was too strong with my words. Let me try to rephrase. I like the culture here in the sense that it's a group of people generally comfortable with some ribbing and have good discussions. I think it's more a matter of judiciously using that culture. Try not to be harsh to newcomers. As they get acclimated, they'll get more comfortable being a target of some joking. Really, it just boils down to understanding boundaries of relationships and being kind.